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My 30th birthday is at the end of the month. I admit to stressing about it since last year. Not about the date or the number, I couldn't care less about that. It is the pressure to have a party and it has been strong. But havn't wanted one. Didn't think I could get away with not doing much (I have a pushy family). Money is an issue, and the fact I strongly dislike parties. And it is the end of an incredibly long and busy month and I want something I can enjoy if not feeling too well.
So........I had a bright idea.
How about a car rally/scavenger hunt. We can end up somewhere for dinner. I have a couple of people interested in planning a stage. Split the neices and nephew up, and head off and have fun. Doesn't matter how many people I invite. The object is fun!
I feel so free! The pressure to do something has been horrible. I don't care if it was just me pressuring myself. It wasn't a fun thing.
Now I need ideas of where we want to go and what we need to find. Will be a photo one. I like cameras and I want the mad photos. I am a visual person, I want these memories.
So........I had a bright idea.
How about a car rally/scavenger hunt. We can end up somewhere for dinner. I have a couple of people interested in planning a stage. Split the neices and nephew up, and head off and have fun. Doesn't matter how many people I invite. The object is fun!
I feel so free! The pressure to do something has been horrible. I don't care if it was just me pressuring myself. It wasn't a fun thing.
Now I need ideas of where we want to go and what we need to find. Will be a photo one. I like cameras and I want the mad photos. I am a visual person, I want these memories.
